2025-06-03 - Nieuwetijdscafe 13¶
Ware vervulling en groei ontstaan wanneer je leert luisteren naar je gevoel, weerstand loslaat en je afstemt op je hogere, niet-fysieke zelf.
Belangrijkste Inzichten uit de Channeling Sessie¶
Kernprincipes¶
- De Kunst van Toelaten: De sessie draaide vooral om het idee van "allowing" – het in lijn brengen van je fysieke realiteit met je niet-fysieke, hogere bewustzijn. Dit bereik je door weerstand los te laten en te vertrouwen op je intuïtie, in plaats van alles te forceren.
- Wet van Aantrekking: Hoewel deze wet erkend wordt, bekritiseert het kanaal strikte technieken. Echte afstemming ontstaat via emotionele harmonie tussen je menselijke en je eeuwige zelf. Het gevoel van vreugde, helderheid en ontspanning is de beste graadmeter.
- Verbondenheid met het Niet-Fysieke: De deelnemers worden eraan herinnerd dat ze eeuwig bewustzijn zijn, in een tijdelijke menselijke ervaring. Rouw om verlies (bv. om een overleden kind) wordt gezien als een uitnodiging om contact te maken met de niet-fysieke essentie van een geliefde, die altijd bereikbaar blijft via bewuste aandacht.
Persoonlijke Uitdagingen en Advies¶
- Slaapproblemen en Moeheid: Moeheid en plotseling in slaap vallen worden gezien als signalen om het contact met het lichaam en het hart te herstellen, vooral wanneer het hoofd overactief is. Advies: luister naar je behoefte aan rust zonder schuldgevoel, en laat angst voor “iets missen” los.
- Rouw en Beperkende Overtuigingen: Aanhoudende rouw wordt gekoppeld aan de overtuiging dat je verdriet ‘moet’ hebben. Het kanaal nodigt uit deze overtuiging te onderzoeken: je mag rouwen om de afwezigheid, maar kunt tegelijkertijd verbinding maken met de blijvende aanwezigheid op niet-fysiek niveau.
- Keuzes maken (bv. aankoop van een huisje): Blijf bij het maken van keuzes vooral voelen: geeft het vreugde? Is er sprake van opwinding bij het vooruitzicht? Dat gevoel is de beste indicator of je ‘op het pad’ zit.
Praktische Richtlijnen¶
- Emotionele Feedback: Gebruik positieve gevoelens als kompas voor afstemming. Gevoelens van weerstand (bv. frustratie, verdriet) laten zien dat je niet in lijn bent met je hogere zelf.
- Balans tussen hoofd en hart: Overmatig denken vraagt om een tegenwicht: meer aandacht voor lichaam en gevoel, bijvoorbeeld via meditatie of lichaamsgerichte oefeningen.
- Herprogrammeren van Overtuigingen: Beperkende overtuigingen (“ik moet hard werken”, “ik mag niet uitrusten”) zijn aangeleerde gedachten, geen absolute waarheden. Je kunt ze bewust vervangen door helpende overtuigingen.
Implicaties voor Spirituele Praktijk¶
- Zie rouw als uitnodiging tot connectie, niet als verplicht lijden.
- Weerstand is geen falen, maar feedback die uitnodigt tot bijsturen.
- Vertrouw dat afstemming met je eeuwige bewustzijn vanzelf beperkende overtuigingen transformeert.
Slotgedachte¶
De rode draad is mildheid en zelfacceptatie: niet streven naar perfectie of afwezigheid van obstakels, maar bereid zijn je perspectief te verschuiven, steeds opnieuw. De inzichten uit het gesprek zijn toepasbaar voor iedereen die bewust wil leven en groeien – zowel op het vlak van persoonlijke ontwikkeling als het spirituele pad.
Transcriptie¶
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CHANNEL: Good day to you all. Thank you. Thank you. We are appreciative of the fact that we are here and able to visit you. Yes. We are now scanning your collective, your small collective. And we have many different opportunities to talk with you about many different subjects. And we are eager to participate with each and every one of you calibrating. Is there anything in particular that anyone wants to start with us about? Anyone with any question?
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: Sleep and I evacuate on that Corey.
SPEAKER 2: Not in a fulfilled pr.
CHANNEL: Okay. And about America on the bird.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: You could we hear from you that you would like to know how to listen to those voices without the muffle? Yeah. Do you have any idea why you would muffle the sound in that sense? Is there anything limit any limiting belief that would say to you that it would be an enhanced experience to listen to a muffled voice instead of a clear voice so that on trickling can the same. If you have the belief system that you need to be more developed to be able to listen with full clarity, then that might be something. Yes. Do you have this belief? Yeah. Well, then probably that is it. So what do you need in order to grow to ascend in that sense for you in your opportunity to be able to listen clearly to those voices? Well, it depends upon your own level of allowing of those clear voices because you raised the barrier for yourself. You follow? Yeah. So what do you need to do to lower your barrier? When will you have studied enough to get your degree in clear listening? By your own definition, that is not so much that. What we mean is what do you need to do to attain that level by your own definition? If that is your definition, then we'd say claim that definition. Say, I just need to be more open to it. Then be open to it. Then claim that you are open to it and that therefore you have now earned the right for your clear receival of those voices and expect that thing to happen.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: Still come.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: Because you can. Okay. And you blur the sound perfectly. So you also added the sound effects in that sense. Okay. So we think that there might be more to it because maybe you have a Fear of receiving something. Maybe you have this affirmation within you that you think that you need to achieve more before listening to those voices, like you said. So maybe there's more to it, but we think that you'll enjoy the journey if you allow yourself in this sense to allow more of the clarity of the receiving of those voices and be playful about it and enjoy the process. Okay. Yeah. And mind you, you don't need to be asleep to hear those voices. So just allow, whenever you feel like playing with those voices, attune, like the channel: now does. Attune, fine tune. Trust and feel for the words to come up.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: Yeah. And if that be a block of thought or that be a block of audio, in that sense a block of words or automatic writing, whatever you feel most accustomed with, please do so. Or try them all out.
SPEAKER 4: Yes. Yeah.
CHANNEL: Does that answer your question?
SPEAKER 2: Yes.
CHANNEL: Thank you. Thank you. Anyone else? Well, that would be great because that is the level that we expect you to be at. That is the amount of confidence that we have in each and every one of you.
SPEAKER 1: And is it so? Is it oxy fair time?
CHANNEL: That depends upon your own definition. Do you define yourself to be a angelic kind of being? Do you define yourself to be a spark of God's essence? Do you define yourself as a never ending consciousness having a human experience in the moment? At least one.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: At least one. Do you perceive that this is your reality at the current moment and that there is only the now moment that is eternal?
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: Do you believe and do you live the life that you desire? No. Then it is because of your own doing. Because you feel in that sense, you feel that you know that you are that divine essence.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: Which is having the human experience.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: And we have programmed ourselves as humans to be lackful.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: So you get a lackful experience.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: So you experience by according to your own beliefs, you experience what you expect to experience and thus it all.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: Does this help?
SPEAKER 1: Yes.
CHANNEL: Great. So you did have a question. Do you follow more. Anyone? More? Play time like this. We love to play like this. Yeah. Thank you. Bring it on.
SPEAKER 1: Yeah. It is well luster by definition.
CHANNEL: Yes.
SPEAKER 1: Yeah.
CHANNEL: But how can the now moment be gone? Yeah, by definition it can't be. So in that sense, we must say that you have a limiting belief in place that limits you in believing that you are living in the now moment.
SPEAKER 1: Yes, that is correct.
CHANNEL: Thank you. Now what you gonna do about it? Because obviously from your question, you want something to change, right? We like the idea. Yes. So fear is keeping you Back.
SPEAKER 1: That is correct.
CHANNEL: So why do you stick to fear? Out of habit. Okay. Do you know what a belief system is? A belief is nothing but a thought that you keep repeating. You keep thinking. So you think the thought, then you think the thought again. And now we call it a belief system. As long as you perpetuate the thinking, it's a belief system. Many of those belief systems, you live as if they are truths. Well, in fact, they are merely belief systems.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: So which belief systems can you let go of to relieve yourself of your limitations?
SPEAKER 1: Now that salon practice all the time, leave out everything, but always is filled.
CHANNEL: That's a lot.
SPEAKER 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
CHANNEL: And it's quite hard because you have an experience. You came here for the experience. Leaving everything means leaving the experience. That's not what you came here to do. You came here for the experience. You came here for the. For the creation. You came here for the.
SPEAKER 1: The.
CHANNEL: The tasting. You came here for the. The in the moment perceiving of absolutely that what it is that you wanted to experience beforehand.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: Letting go of everything seems like a plausible goal, but it is not what you want. When you came here for this incarnation, you chose to incarnate, to have the human experience. So what that means basically. Basically is that you want to experience. So you do not want to let go of everything. But maybe you want to focus more. Instead of distracting yourself, you want to focus more on the experience.
SPEAKER 1: Yeah.
CHANNEL: Well, what would that mean for you?
SPEAKER 1: The focus needs to share what the nech tiefekant are from. It is focus for leche.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: That's all there is to it.
SPEAKER 1: Yeah.
CHANNEL: By definition, that's all there is to it. According to the law of Attraction.
SPEAKER 1: Yeah, yeah. Amid all the offlighting and the design, the mooches of the mooten.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: All creations of your own.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
SPEAKER 1: Yeah, that's all.
CHANNEL: Otherwise they weren't in your reality because you expect them to be there.
SPEAKER 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: You can let go of those too. Or you can thank them for being there, because obviously they have some meaning to you. Otherwise you wouldn't have them create questions. So what does it. What. What do they bring? Pick one and find out. What does it bring to you?
SPEAKER 1: Yeah.
CHANNEL: Why would you perpetuate, for example, the process of paying taxes? Or why would you perpetuate the process.
SPEAKER 2: Of.
CHANNEL: Cleaning up your. Whatever it is you do not like to clean? Any chore that you do not like, but still perpetuate. Why do you do it? Mostly those are because they have certain benefits to them or you don't allow someone else to do it for you. You expect to do everything yourself or you expect to have to do everything yourself?
SPEAKER 4: Yeah.
CHANNEL: So in your resilience to the art of allowing, you think you have to do everything yourself? Well, in fact, all that you have to do is to allow every experience that you want. And the allowing is the process of aligning with what it is that you really want to experience.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: Does this help?
SPEAKER 1: Yeah, yeah, it helps.
CHANNEL: We hear some hesitation there. Yes. Just the slightest bit. Yes. So what is your question.
SPEAKER 1: Now? What's.
CHANNEL: You want to perpetuate the moment, but you do not want to keep it on going on and on forever, because that would be boring. So you do not want to perpetuate it forever, but you want to prolong the moment.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
SPEAKER 1: Yeah. My thought is my over pumped momented the lighting name in mein weissen mein pottel open and knit by.
CHANNEL: So what prohibits you from doing so now?
SPEAKER 1: Yeah, at her cannon.
CHANNEL: So you recognize it now, don't you?
SPEAKER 1: Yeah, yeah.
CHANNEL: Well, when we say you recognize it and you say yeah, ja. We hear a kind of denial.
SPEAKER 1: Yeah, I forgot.
CHANNEL: Do you follow? So why do you deny your own absolute greatness and your possibility to allow whatever it is that you want in experience? Why do you say ya, ya. So you feel frustrated because you disallow yourself the experience that you want.
SPEAKER 1: Yeah.
CHANNEL: Well, thank you. That's honest. We like that. So now how would you be able to let go? Do you have a mechanism or an instrument of anything that enables you to transition into that now moment, but you cannot put your finger on it? You know that you have the techniques, you know that you are doing it. You don't know how you are doing it. And it frustrates you that you don't know how you are doing what you're doing, so that you cannot repeat what you know that you are doing that you don't you get the point?
SPEAKER 1: Yeah.
CHANNEL: Yes. So you're almost there, right? Yeah.
SPEAKER 1: Yeah. Full todictivity clip options.
CHANNEL: Well, that doesn't sound like the art of allowing. That sounds like the art of blocking.
SPEAKER 1: Yeah. That is pushing.
CHANNEL: That's pushing against.
SPEAKER 1: Yeah.
CHANNEL: So don't think that you need to work hard in that sense. Because anything that's related to hard work means opposing too.
SPEAKER 1: Yeah.
CHANNEL: That you can now easily let go of them all. Yes. Thank you.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: So how would you like to redefine yourself right here, right now?
SPEAKER 1: Redefine?
CHANNEL: Yeah, redefine yourselves. How would you be you without those limiting beliefs? How would you act when you didn't have those limiting beliefs?
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: Can you experience that feeling right now?
SPEAKER 1: Yeah.
CHANNEL: Can you move into the vibration of where you would be if you allowed yourself the ultimate experience of your life?
SPEAKER 1: Yeah.
CHANNEL: That is the art of allowing. You're doing it right now. Do you know why this is all that there is to it?
SPEAKER 1: No.
CHANNEL: Do you know that you are a non physical entity as well as a physical entity?
SPEAKER 1: Yeah. That's cordic.
CHANNEL: You have a non physical nature. And part of that non physical nature is having a human experience in this physical reality.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: That means that your non physical nature has a high flying, always increasing frequency.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: And your Persona, your physical reality, Persona, construct is vibrating all over the place.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: The art of allowing means that you align with your physical reality. You line up with your non physical nature so that you match you frequency and therefore have two powerful magnets of attraction on the same frequency. So when you are a non physical being, which you are, you have a high flying frequency always and you are attracting on that frequency. By definition, you are as a Persona moving all over the place and therefore attracting all over the place. The difference is how you feel in harmony or in resistance.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
SPEAKER 1: Yeah.
CHANNEL: So the art of allowing means doing whatever you have to do and leaving out everything that you can leave out, which is almost everything to be in that flow of feeling that frequency. Just like you did just now.
SPEAKER 4: Yeah.
CHANNEL: You felt it, right?
SPEAKER 1: Yeah.
CHANNEL: You were there. So for that split moment you were there with the rest of you, increasing your magnet to allow more goodness to come to you. That does not mean that you have to go about and work and achieve and resist and fight for things that you believe that you want to allow.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: Does this answer your question?
SPEAKER 1: Yeah. Thank you.
CHANNEL: Thank you for allowing us the opportunity to allow. Allowing to bring to you the most simple means of being you.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: It is not just a gift that you have given yourself. It is a gift that you have through us, given to each and every one here of you to remind yourself of the possibility to do absolutely nothing and therefore experience ultimate bliss for as long as you want it. Because it will get boring.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: Yeah. Helpful.
SPEAKER 1: Yeah. Thank you though. Enough for the ordinary. Yeah. Thank you.
CHANNEL: Yes. Thank you. Anyone else?
SPEAKER 1: Yeah. Yes, I have a question.
CHANNEL: By all means.
SPEAKER 1: I'm planning to buy a little sheds in North Italia.
CHANNEL: Yes.
SPEAKER 1: Do you think? Yeah, it's a good idea. Am I on the right way?
CHANNEL: How do you feel about the show?
SPEAKER 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
CHANNEL: Do you feel that? Like. Oh, this is so yummy.
SPEAKER 1: Yeah.
CHANNEL: This is so delightful. Do you feel like I am so going to enjoy being there?
SPEAKER 1: Yes.
CHANNEL: Do you already feel that sensation of opening the door and releasing everything, everything behind you because you have arrived?
SPEAKER 1: Yeah, I see it.
CHANNEL: We think that you know your answer.
SPEAKER 1: Yes. Yes. Thank you.
CHANNEL: You're welcome.
SPEAKER 1: Yeah.
CHANNEL: Does that mean that you will achieve absolute success in that experience that you are now so feeling?
SPEAKER 1: Yeah.
CHANNEL: No. Always feel in that sense whether you have any other resistance. When you feel high flying, it's a fine tunement when you're really high flying. When you really feel this good, you can feel for any resistance and resolve that it's the best time to focus on your resistance when you're feeling like.
SPEAKER 1: That resistance as a helper, the negative belief system.
CHANNEL: Don't go feeling for resistance when you feel low because you'll increase it.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: But touch on your resistance lightly to lift it when you feel good.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: This is how you clean your vibration in that sense. This is how you clean your programming. Don't go do it too much because you'll probably drop your level, your frequency. And you don't want that because you want to feel good anyway. But it is not bad to tip down and to feel for that resistance that you have somewhere in your experience. And then you say, I can now live this because from this perspective, from this really good feeling perspective, I can now see how bullshitty this limiting belief system is. I love that. Great. So that's for your enjoyment.
SPEAKER 1: Yeah, that.
CHANNEL: Yes. And your entire life is for your enjoyment. And this could be a guide to everything.
SPEAKER 4: Yeah.
CHANNEL: Great.
SPEAKER 1: Thank you.
CHANNEL: Thank you. We have just experienced some of your nitty gritty, fine detailed chalet and we look forward for your experience there and we might hop in from time to time to enjoy it with you.
SPEAKER 1: I just was saying that everybody's welcome place to be.
CHANNEL: We thank you. We will probably not visit in physical, but we love to have the experience from the physical vantage point of each and every one of you on such a location.
SPEAKER 2: Yes.
CHANNEL: So in that sense, if you want to create more of that feeling, if you want to use us as a magnifying glass on a given frequency, invite all there is out there, all experience out there, all consciousness out there that wants to feel and wants to experience the nitty gritty of what you are about to do, it will enhance your experience.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: Helpful.
SPEAKER 1: Yeah. Sacred.
CHANNEL: Thank you.
SPEAKER 1: Thank you.
CHANNEL: Anyone else? Anything more? We are getting all warmed up in here, so let's bring it home. 413 and it's deviating somewhat.
SPEAKER 1: Okay. There are a lot.
CHANNEL: Yes, we Feel like a lot.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: And we are glad that we are non physical. Otherwise it will be a little crowded.
SPEAKER 1: Yes.
CHANNEL: Is crossed. I have to start at it with inbuild. Cross the finbuild. Partly yes, partly well. We know that this technique that you now refer to is common in the understanding of the law of attraction. It's not fully complete. There is no definite technique for the appliance of the law of attraction. Because if you feel something very important, but something very bad about something, it still means you're attracting more of. Also means that the larger part of you is attracting something completely different. Because the larger part of you is your non physical which is on a very high frequency per definition and always increasing in frequency per definition. While you in your Persona can go all over the place. And you attract whatever you give momentum and momentum is like activating the thought more and more.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: Yeah. So by definition you attract. By definition you apply the law of attraction. This is why we focus more on the art of allowing. Which is not a technique, but an art like you've just seen demonstrated here. There are many techniques that you can use in the art of allowing and visualization is one of them and can be very helpful. But anything that helps you to let go of your resistance means that it is helping you to get into your path. Your means of allowing for yourself to experience what you so desire. You feel what you truly desire when you match up with the larger part of you. Which means that you get the instant feedback from your alignment of the two points of attraction. Feeling like utter bliss. Yeah. You had somewhat of a demonstration not long ago. That moment that you feel the nitty gritty, like she was saying. Oh yes, that's how you want to feel about something. And that's when you feel that you are in alignment with a bigger part of you. That is when you turn on both magnets to the fullest.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: It's like when we would use the energy of the analogy of a radio. When your inner being, your non physical nature is always fine tuning to something very nice for the whole whole of you. Yeah. So you constantly have that song in the background. But when you are focused on something else and you put your full attention on it, for example the news, you are focusing on something completely different. Now you hear that the loudest and you do not listen to your encore somewhere in the back. But when you tune your dial from your physical reality standpoint of view to the same tune that your inner being is attuned to now you hear that song in amplification and you can enjoy it even better because you hear it two times simultaneously in stereo.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: That is what it really feels like. And this is like an analogy of being in that alignment, of really allowing that alignment to occur within you. And we suggest that you do anything that you can do to achieve that moment of aligning.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: Which can be anything, really. Go to a spa and enjoy your day. Go walk out with a dog on a rainy Sunday where it's calm and quiet and you still enjoy the surrounding. And when you really feel that you have a connection to the nature around you. Yeah. Do whatever it is that pleases you in that sense where you feel that connection. That is the art of allowing and that is putting the best use to the law of attraction. Okay.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: Yeah. Helpful. Yes. Enough. Great. Thank you for this opportunity for us to clarify. Anyone else? Anyone else? Anything more? Did someone just allow a new question to pop up? No. No, no. Okay, no question then. Because the eyes are being shut.
SPEAKER 1: Okay. Okay. But can you feel them then?
CHANNEL: Can we feel your team, you mean? Yes, we can feel your team if we want to feel your team. So, yes.
SPEAKER 2: Why?
CHANNEL: What do you want to do?
SPEAKER 1: Do they have a message for me?
CHANNEL: Well, it basically says, enjoy more. Is that helpful?
SPEAKER 1: This is the second time I heard it.
CHANNEL: Well, maybe that is time to listen. So, not from your team, but from our vantage point. What do you need to let go of your resistance and allow more. Enjoy your resistance. But what is your resistance? Why would people, especially your team, be telling you to enjoy more?
SPEAKER 1: Nothing to that.
CHANNEL: And why is that? Why is that?
SPEAKER 1: Yeah.
CHANNEL: Good question, isn't it? Yeah.
SPEAKER 1: This.
CHANNEL: If you want to feel for this lack of. Of fundament underneath your lackful thinking, underneath your resistance.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: Then focus on the nothingness that is supporting you in the keeping up of your resistance and feel that nothing is supporting it. Because when nothing is supporting it, you can just let go. Maybe you do not have an active belief system anymore, but it is simply out of habit not to enjoy. Choose a new habit. That depends on your limiting belief systems. But we would say enjoy them.
SPEAKER 1: Yeah.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: Enjoy your limiting belief systems as well. As soon as you see them as part of the fabric of your life experience, you can now enjoy them. Because you can enjoy their experience and their. You're acknowledging of them being there and therefore having the capacity to let go of them. If you don't know what's keeping you back, you don't know how to let go of that.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: So we love the fact that you become aware of there's no supporting for your limiting belief systems.
SPEAKER 4: Yes, yes.
CHANNEL: Enjoy. Really enjoy. Just enjoy. Is that enough?
SPEAKER 1: Yes, that's enough.
CHANNEL: Well, thank you.
SPEAKER 1: Thank you.
CHANNEL: You're welcome.
SPEAKER 1: Yeah, thanks. My guide.
CHANNEL: Anything else?
SPEAKER 2: Yes, I'm experiencing kind of the waves of, of tiredness and, and focus and I, I, I don't understand exactly because I don't feel that something is, is happening. But okay, I was trying. Or maybe you could have like a technique or some kind of focus point on how to resolve this. Otherwise I might, for example, be very tired during the day in a specific time when I don't feel tired, but I just lose, lose the energy and then.
CHANNEL: Yes.
SPEAKER 2: Almost fall asleep. So, okay, so this is. So do you have any idea why.
CHANNEL: You might fall asleep?
SPEAKER 2: No. Well, now, for example, I do. I close my eyes because I, I, There is particles in the air. So that, so that I know that I close my eyes because of the particles.
CHANNEL: Yeah. Closing your eyes isn't being asleep.
SPEAKER 2: No, no.
CHANNEL: So why would you fall asleep?
SPEAKER 2: I don't know.
CHANNEL: Is there anything that you perceive to be of any triggering nature, so to speak? Anything that like, is pulling you towards sleep? No. Okay.
SPEAKER 2: No, actually it's, it's, I, it's frustrating because when I, even when I think, oh, this is interesting. Yes, it's still happening.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: We would like a suggestion and see if you can feel any resonance with that.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: Can you imagine that your falling asleep is a beautiful orchestration of your heart's energy in combination with your mind's energy to shut up and slow down and to reorient on the heart's core? Because you are very brain focused, thinking focused.
SPEAKER 2: Yes, I accept that suggestion that while I'm driving, it's not a helpful thing. So.
CHANNEL: So it would be the wisest thing to park the car.
SPEAKER 4: Yeah, yeah.
CHANNEL: So be wise in the moment.
SPEAKER 4: Yes, yes.
CHANNEL: But we think that what we feel from your center is that your, your focus is so much on the mind and what you can conceive with the mind that you're forgetting who you are completely here as a Persona which also includes more of the heart, more of the body knowledge. You're not a head on sticks.
SPEAKER 2: And the heart will help me stay awake or be present more.
CHANNEL: Or the heart is trying to get your attention away from so much thinking. To be more in the moment, to be more in the now, to let go of resistance. When you go to sleep, you automatically raise your frequency. So it is your body's system, it's the harmonics of your heart's energy with your mind's. Energy that is pulling the cord, so to speak, and says it is time to unfocus with the mind. If you would take the time to feel for the heart's energy what your heart is telling you, what your body knowledge is telling you, what are the other systems than your mind are telling you. And we know that you have a lot of techniques to do that.
SPEAKER 2: Yes.
CHANNEL: So apply them to feel. Apply them for that intuitive knowing instead of crafted thought. Do you follow?
SPEAKER 2: Yes.
CHANNEL: We like the way that you allow your mind to focus on detail on a broad level, all over the place. But for some of your experience, that isn't the most beneficial.
SPEAKER 2: Yes. I have a fear that if I lose the mind and that I will fall asleep, for example. So it is like a counterintuitive thing when I'm present, listening.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
SPEAKER 2: And then, well, what would happen?
CHANNEL: Well, what would happen? What do you fear that will happen?
SPEAKER 2: Well, that I would fall asleep.
CHANNEL: And if your system's telling you to fall asleep, then what's the. What's your real fear? Yeah, yeah. In safe circumstances. Yes, but we are assuming those safe circumstances because your mind will not let you fall asleep when you're still focused in the car. You know that. But it's. It will have a really hard time and vision will get blurry and you will feel tired to the maximum and you need to pull over.
SPEAKER 2: Yeah.
CHANNEL: And there's nothing wrong with that. That's wisdom.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
SPEAKER 2: Yes.
CHANNEL: So what's your real fear with falling asleep?
SPEAKER 2: Being judged by people who see me fall asleep.
CHANNEL: Is that the thing?
SPEAKER 2: Well, maybe, but that. That would be one of the things.
CHANNEL: That would be one of the things, but we think there's more. Okay, but your fear of judgment is one. We also think that you have a fear of missing out. We also think that you like to be so present with everything that's going on because you are focused in so many places at the same time that you want to be everywhere. And being asleep means retracting your focus from all those things that you want to focus on. But it's not time spent in a bad way. It's time spent to regain the focus that allows you to perceive all the things in such clarity that you want to perceive. It's re. Enabling you.
SPEAKER 2: Yes, yes.
CHANNEL: We feel that you have some negative belief systems about sleep itself. And like you mentioned, the falling asleep in social circumstances. And we suggest that you take the time for yourself to ditch them all because your resistance is not helpful when your system is asking for you to sleep. Trust your bodily knowledge, your Inner wisdom in that sense, to adhere to it. Because there are processes going on within each and every human, as in your consciousness level as well as in your physical level, as well as in your emotional level. Whatever levels that you perceive, you know a lot of them. And sleep and resting in that sense is very important to many of them. So we say be wise and listen to your system and make it as comfortable for you as possible to take the rest that your system asks from you, to be able to tune into all the things with clarity and focus where you feel most beneficial and where you feel your drive and your passion.
SPEAKER 2: Yeah.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: Is this helpful?
SPEAKER 2: It gives another perspective. So I will feel into it when the opportunity occurs, when you will have.
CHANNEL: Made the opportunity occur. Because this is of your own allowing. It is not something that is done unto you. It is what you create yourself. So we would really sincerely ask you to take the time to drop those resistanceful thoughts and let in the rest ones.
SPEAKER 2: Okay.
CHANNEL: But make it a deliberate action. Put it in your agenda. No. The leaving of the resistance. The focusing on what's leaving, what's. What's keeping me from falling asleep. Why do I have such a bad relationship with my body? Sleeping.
SPEAKER 1: Okay.
CHANNEL: Focus on that. Clear it and enjoy a good night's rest. Yeah. Because it's lovely. It allows waking up nourished, refreshing, regaining a lot of focus, being present. And that is the experience that you really like. Right? Yes, thank you. Helpful.
SPEAKER 2: Yes.
CHANNEL: Enough for now. Thank you. We love to continue. When you have some more experience after a good rest, for example. And you know where to find us.
SPEAKER 2: Yeah.
CHANNEL: Thank you for your honest question. Anyone else? Okay. Okay. In the night.
SPEAKER 1: Yeah. And overdug. In the ortend.
CHANNEL: And.
SPEAKER 1: Yeah.
CHANNEL: We can imagine. Yeah. Yes. Do you know the nature of what is keeping you from falling asleep? Would you care to elaborate on that? So grief is prohibiting you. That's your belief system? No. We think the fear of the living, of the grief, of the. The experience of grief. You fear the pain of the experience of grief so much that you are too scared to fall asleep in the assumption that you will experience it to the void. You follow?
SPEAKER 1: Yeah.
CHANNEL: Does this resonate with you?
SPEAKER 1: Yeah.
CHANNEL: We will not ask you what you are, what your grief is all about, because this will invite you to go there. And we do not need to go there. What we do want to question you is why do you believe that the grief will occur in the night? So then we hear in your belief structure, we hear that something is ever present, meaning the grief is ever present. And when you retract yourself from your conscious surrounding, from the conscious experience of your surrounding. Then you have to meet the grief. Is this your belief system? Do you believe that the grief is always there?
SPEAKER 1: Yeah.
CHANNEL: Do you believe that when you fall asleep that your focus on everything subsiding means automatically that the grief is claiming your attention? Do you feel that this is a truth or that this is a belief system? Which one? Do you believe that this is a physical law, so to speak, that you must experience grief when distracting yourself? No. So if it isn't the truth, then it must be a belief system. Right. So we think that when you allow yourself to feel this is a belief system, that you kind of rock the boat a little and say, this need not be because it is only the result of my belief system. It doesn't mean that you get rid of the entire belief system, but it means that you allow yourself the possibility to live without that forced grief. The grief that you feel is being forced upon you.
SPEAKER 1: No, it's not forced.
CHANNEL: Well, it's always present.
SPEAKER 1: It's always present.
CHANNEL: So when it's not forced upon you, then why do you choose to make it active?
SPEAKER 1: Yeah. Yeah.
CHANNEL: I don't think it's a choice. Why do you think it is not a choice?
SPEAKER 1: It's there.
CHANNEL: It's just there. It's just there. We think that grief is an emotional state. Would you agree? Yeah. We believe that any emotional state is the result of the difference in the frequency of your human experience and your inner being's experience.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: So given where your frequency is from, your Persona means that you are either somewhere between bliss and something very, very ugly.
SPEAKER 4: Yeah.
CHANNEL: So your current frequency, your current vibration, from your Persona's perspective, your physical reality's perspective, is the result of where you focus. You have this belief, like we hear from you. You have this belief that when I do not focus on something, I automatically drop to something that causes my frequency to result in grief. We think you're wrong. We think that you are so accustomed to focusing it that you so expect it to be there, that that is what's pulling your attention towards the thing that makes you grieve that much. Because it is so in disharmony with who you truly are. It is out of habit more than it is a law. But this can be hard to hear because it isn't that you've done this a long time. Right. Choosing to go differently for many people, especially on these limiting beliefs, you don't do overnight. We expect, in that sense, for you to expect gradual improvement and not improvement Overnight, while you could experience the movement. Overnight, while you could experience to drop the grief completely. We do not expect you to change your belief system that radically because this isn't what you have been experiencing the last years of your human experience. Right? So go easy on yourself and expect it to change bit by bit. But do expect the change because it is your art of allowing that allows you to change this, to have the experience of a good night's rest. Do you follow?
SPEAKER 1: Yes, I follow.
CHANNEL: Do you have the idea that you are now capable of having a better night tonight?
SPEAKER 1: Well, I hope so.
CHANNEL: When you say you hope so, it means to us that you do not have a plan, that you do not have something clear and that you think that it is still done upon you. You follow?
SPEAKER 1: Yeah.
CHANNEL: How can we convince you that you have influence over this?
SPEAKER 1: You can convince me of.
CHANNEL: Do you believe that you have the capacity to focus differently?
SPEAKER 1: Yeah. Thank you.
CHANNEL: Do you believe that you can focus on something that makes you smile? Does that need to happen in the moment? Do you need the physical evidence of something good to happen? Be able to smile? Do you have a happy memory? Oh yeah. Can you now choose to activate that happy moment?
SPEAKER 1: But I'm comfortable for the heat.
CHANNEL: With the happy memory there comes the distraction or the focus on the subject of your loss.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: Is this about a lost one?
SPEAKER 1: Yeah.
CHANNEL: We would like to go to the bottom of this. Do you know that you are both a non physical being and having a physical.
SPEAKER 1: Can you say that again?
CHANNEL: Do you know that you are a non physical being having a human physical experience? Do you know that everyone else is similar in that?
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: So you acknowledge that everyone who exists right now has a non physical nature that has always been and will always be. Do you acknowledge that everyone who has ever been before, therefore must also be now in a different focus nature? Do you feel that you have the capacity to connect with your own inner being? Do you feel that you have the capacity to feel closeness, to feel related, to feel the approximity to other non physical beings? We think you do and we think we definitely we know you can. We would like to suggest to you when you are taken over by grief, to acknowledge to yourself this person that I so dearly love and miss, its presence isn't gone. I can still connect to its inner being because that by definition is, was and always will be. I can connect to the most beautiful part of this human being.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: And you can feel when you are focused on that person and you feel the sadness, you know that you are focused on the lack of the Persona in your life. That's what's causing the grief. Why does it feel like a grief to you? Because your inner being is feeling something different. That's why grief doesn't feel as a blissful feeling. Because you feel you get the feedback that you focus on. Something so different than your inner being is accepting, is vibrating on you. Feel that difference?
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: So you know by definition of feeling the grief that the larger part of you things differently. The larger part of you is able to connect to everyone, whoever was, whoever is and whoever shall be.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: You can connect with your loved ones at any time. But on their non physical level. Focus on their non physical nature and then feel for their presence. Because when you are in grief, when you are focused on that person, they are there because they feel you and they feel your focus and they surround you. But when you focus on the lack of their presence, it only amplifies because they amplify the feeling of your non physical nature and say I'm here. You follow?
SPEAKER 1: Yeah.
CHANNEL: You feel the truth in that?
SPEAKER 1: Yeah.
CHANNEL: Does this help for you when you feel the next time in sorrow that you can now feel for that non physical nature of this person?
SPEAKER 1: Yeah.
CHANNEL: We thank you. Thank you. Do you feel at this moment in time that you would try this with us here and now or would you not feel comfortable doing so?
SPEAKER 2: Yes.
CHANNEL: You would feel comfortable.
SPEAKER 1: Yeah.
CHANNEL: May we ask of you the name of the person you so dearly miss?
SPEAKER 1: #SONS-NAME#.
CHANNEL: #SONS-NAME#. Would you join us in thinking about #SONS-NAME#? What do you feel? You feel the love. You feel the love for #SONS-NAME#.
SPEAKER 1: For and thumb.
CHANNEL: Meaning that you are in resonance with his. You are in resonance with him, with his inner being, with his non physical nature.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: Can you acknowledge for yourself, yes, I am now connected with #SONS-NAME#? Yes. He's always there. Yes. You are never alone in that sense.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: Can you feel him being present? Yeah. Can you feel that your grief is something that you can now let go of because he is present? Your grief is no longer of any worth to you. You can just let go of it. No need for that resistance. Just allow it. Any emotion is okay.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: We think you are very brave in the moving away from your resistance and in the allowing of your connection with your son. And you have just brightened our day. And we thank you that you have allowed yourself this step towards more fun and more rest and more connection and to more harmony and to experiencing the rest of your experience with your son.
SPEAKER 1: Yeah.
CHANNEL: Through non physical eyes.
SPEAKER 1: Yeah.
SPEAKER 4: Yes.
CHANNEL: We thank you enough.
SPEAKER 1: Yeah.
CHANNEL: Thank you. Thank you. And you are very welcome so after this, is there anyone who still has any question about the art of solving? Because what you just did was a profound shift. So we are really appreciative of what you have just done. And we are very excited about the possibility of humans to let go of their resistance. This is what you prove to others. So thank you. You might not know that in the collective consciousness of humans you have just now enabled more people to step into alignment. We thank you for. Thank you. How's the Time oh exactly 21:29. No, one minute. That means that for us we feel complete. Yes. We thank each and every one of you for your intention, for your participation, for your presence, for your sharing, for your allowing of your worthiness to feel the growth to share here and to allow these beautiful things to occur. And to allow each other the possibility to experience in your sharing each and every one of your different capabilities. To allow in all that you want and to make your life a better place. And therefore for the entire human race to allow more of what it is that you do desire to come in.
SPEAKER 1: Thank you thank you very much.